How do you turn down a drink at a bar when you have a boyfriend and still be friendly/polite?
Just wanted some advice on how other women will turn down drinks at bars. When I get offered a drink, I usually tell them "No thanks, I have a boyfriend," which makes me feel like I am making an assumption that, "Oh you must be buying me a drink just to get in my pants!" when that isn't always the case. For example, when I was single, a guy bought me a drink because I was having a really hard time getting to the crowded bar. We had a friendly chat for barely a minute and that was that.